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Cherchez La Femme
The following is a guest post by Danielle Perry: Writer and photographer with a desk job. You can find her on Flickr, where she posts pictures daily, and on Twitter, where she posts about books, games, living in DC, and … Continue reading
Same Sex Romance and Mass Effect 3
Though rare, same sex romance options are not new to video games. We have seen them Jade Empire, The Sims, The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim, and the Dragon Age series. But lately, BioWare has had some shining moments in this … Continue reading
Posted in Console Games
Tagged BioWare, game design, LGBT, Mass Effect, Mass Effect 2, mass effect 3, sex, sexuality
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Mayday: Or, How I Learned To Love Grace Jones
It took me a while to recognize how I would approach Corvus Elrod’s theme for this month’s Blogs of the Round Table. It’s been fairly rare that a game has not managed to pull me out of some fantasy or … Continue reading
Posted in Console Games
Tagged Blogs of the Round Table, gender identity, GoldenEye 007, race, self expression, sex
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Sex Negativity & Skyrim
The following is a guest post from Bobby Arthur: Bobby Arthur is a freelance writer and marketing communications professional living in Toronto. He can be reached at bobby@thejuiceagency.ca and his XBLA Gamertag is WhiskerRub. Odds are there is someone in your life who … Continue reading
Posted in Console Games, PC Games
Tagged Bethesda, Elder Scrolls, featured, sex, sex negativity, skyrim
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Let’s Talk About Sex!
The following is a guest post from Kate Cox: Kate Cox had ideas about games, thought, “someone should write about this,” then realized in 2010, “I’m someone.” She’s a straight white cis woman who’s been an avid gamer since 1986 … Continue reading
Posted in Console Games
Tagged BioWare, Catherine, fable, fable 3, Fable III, Mass Effect 2, sex
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“Did she just money-shot herself with his neck-blood?”
(Alternate title: The conflation of violence and sex in video games, how it manifests in the ‘femme fatale’ character trope, and how this conflation works to serve patriarchal fantasies of women and violence: a male perspective.) Women in … Continue reading
Posted in Console Games
Tagged blood, femme fatale, masculinity, men, sex, violence, women
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NSFW: Team Fortress 2 team sponsored by Fleshlight?
This article is labeled as NSFW because it contains frank description of sexual behavior. If you don’t follow the links, it’s probably OK depending on your work. Sometimes something comes up in feminist and queer dialogue that totally throws me for a loop. I’m sex-positive … Continue reading
Posted in General Gaming, PC Games
Tagged Fleshlight, Patriarchy, porn, sex, team fortress 2
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Good Old Games, or, Sex Is Funny Durr Hur Hurrrr
I’m growing impatient for the day to arrive when marketing a site aimed at a general gamer audience will no longer default to marketing exclusively to over-sexed, under-touched men. Continue reading
Gay (But Not “Gay”) Characters in Video Games
by guest contributor Robert Yang, originally posted at Radiator Design Blog Robert Yang is currently an MFA student studying “Design and Technology” at Parsons, The New School for Design. If he’s famous for anything, it’s probably for his artsy-fartsy Half-Life … Continue reading
Posted in General Gaming
Tagged characters, Fallout: New Vegas, homophobia, homosexuality, Jim Sterling, LGBT, representation, sex
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What Cosmo says about women who game: we have more sex
According to every feminist’s favorite whipping-girl of women’s magazines, Cosmo, women who play videogames have sex an average four times a week where women who don’t only have sex an average of three times a week. I think by “women,” … Continue reading

